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 Drinking & Drugs and Pre-Teens     More and more children 12 and younger 
                are trying drugs and alcohol. Parents 
                and schools need to start teaching substance abuse prevention 
                before children are adolescents. One bonus in this approach is 
                that children in the early grades have a high interest in health 
                and in the ways their bodies work. They are far more ready to 
                learn about prevention and personal safety than they will be as 
                teens. 
                     In the meantime, you can talk 
                with your preteens about right and wrong, or things that 
                are safe and dangerous. You can build self-esteem and confidence 
                that will help them say no later. You can teach them about rules 
                and responsibilities. You can develop good family communication 
                and encourage them to talk with you about their ideas, fears, 
                and feelings. You can show your love. You can be a good model. 
                Doing these things now with your preteens will help form the kind 
                of patterns and strong relationships that will help prevent problems 
                later. 
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